A Balinese marriage is another ceremonial occasion, as it is in almost all cultures in the world. Marriage varies from village to village. There are two ways to get married in Bali, one is called 'ngerorod' and the other is 'mapadik'.
An ngerorod marriage is one of elopement, yet more dramatically than Western elopements. In this marriage the bride is 'kidnapped' by the husband-to-be or his friends and family. She must then fake distress and pretend to fight her 'kidnappers' off. She will then be taken to a pre-arranged location where she is united with her husband-to-be.
Her father will raise the alarm of this theatrical 'kidnapping' and will organise a fake search
Days later, the groom and father of the bride will discuss the union and settle on a payment for the daughter/bride. An official celebration will follow, which is merely a formality as they are already considered married in the eyes of the gods.
A mapadik marriage is dramatic and practical and is more traditional. It occurs more commonly amongst those who are able to fund a lavish ceremony. Prior to the wedding ceremony there are a number of visits between the families, where gifts and food are exchanged. It is the groom's family that will arrange the wedding, as well as pay for it.
On the day, guests are entertained by professional musicians and an enormous banquet.
The ceremony can vary greatly depending on the family, but elaborate clothing is commonly worn and after the ceremony the bride and groom will feed each other food. They will then imitate their domestic duties whilst being watched and encouraged by their family. This is a symbolic act of their future life together. Other rituals and blessings are then bestowed upon the couple, followed by their reception.
Prearranged marriages still occur in Bali but with the consent of the boy and girl involved. Mixed-caste marriages are less likely to occur but do happen. Women are not allowed to 'marry down' in relation to caste.
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